The Right Opinion
How Times Have Changed
Having been born in 1936 has allowed me to witness both societal progress and retrogression. High on the list of things made better in our society are the great gains in civil liberties and economic opportunities, especially for racial minorities and women. People who are now deemed poor have a level of material wealth that would have been a pipe dream to yesteryear's poor. But despite the fact that today's Americans have achieved an unprecedented level of prosperity, we have become spiritually and morally impoverished compared with our ancestors.
Years ago, spending beyond one's means was considered a character defect. Today not only do people spend beyond their means but also there are companies that advertise on radio and TV to eliminate or reduce your credit card and mortgage debt. Students saddled with college loans have called for student loan forgiveness. Yesterday's Americans would have viewed it as morally corrupt and reprehensible to accumulate debt and then seek to avoid paying it. It's nothing less than theft. What's worse is there's little condemnation of it by the rest of us.
Earlier this year, as a result of a budget crunch, the Philadelphia School District had to lay off 91 school police officers. During the 1940s and '50s, I attended Philadelphia schools in poor neighborhoods. The only time we saw a policeman in school was during an assembly period when we had to listen to a boring lecture about safety. Because teacher assaults are tolerated -- 4,000 over the past five years in Philadelphia -- school police are needed. Prior to the '60s, few students would have thought of talking back to a teacher, and no one would have cursed, much less assaulted, a teacher.
I couldn't have been more than 8, 9 or 10 years old when one time, on the way home from school, my cousin and I were having a stone fight with some other youngsters. An elderly black lady walked up to my cousin and me and asked, "Does your mother know you're out here throwing stones?" We replied, "No, ma'am," praying that the matter rested there. Today an adult doing the same thing risks being cursed and possibly assaulted. Fearing retaliation, adults sit in silence as young people use vile language to one another on public conveyances, in school corridors and on the streets.
Yesteryear there was little tolerance for the kinds of crude behavior and language that are accepted today. To see a man sitting on a bus or trolley car while a woman is standing used to be unthinkable. Children didn't address adults by their first name. By the way, over the course of my nearly 45 years of teaching, on several occasions, students have addressed me by my first name. I have told them that I don't mind their addressing me by my first name but that my first name is Professor.
Much of what's accepted today would have been seen as bizarre and lowdown yesteryear. Out-of-wedlock childbirth was a disgrace and surely wouldn't have occasioned a baby shower. Popular TV shows such as "The Jerry Springer Show" and "Maury" feature guests who openly discuss despicable acts in their personal lives, often to the applause of the audience. Shame is going the way of the dinosaur.
You say, "Williams, you're just old-fashioned and out of touch with modern society." Maybe so, but I think that a society's first line of defense is not the law but customs, traditions and moral values. These behavioral norms -- transmitted by example, word of mouth, religious teachings, rules of etiquette and manners -- represent a body of wisdom distilled over the ages through experience and trial and error. They include important legal thou-shalt-nots -- such as shalt not murder, steal, lie or cheat -- but they also include all those civilities one might call ladylike or gentlemanly behavior. Police officers and courts can never replace these social restraints on personal conduct. At best, laws, police and the criminal justice system are a society's last desperate line of defense.
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14 Comments
tod -the tool guy in bklyn ny
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 5:40 AM
When I was ten years old, I stole an antique glass bottle from my first carpentry teacher. My mother asked me where I got the bottle, so I told her. Mother made me return the bottle and apologize to Mr. Parmenter, for my sin. That was a good lesson on the ten commandments. Today, God's commandments are not allowed to be posted on the walls of any Alabama courthouse! My children know of the "TEN" from Sunday School, W.W..
KN in Arkansas
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 9:27 AM
Well said, Mr. Williams, well said indeed.
David Chappell in Bellville, Texas
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 12:57 PM
"Right on Mr. Williams". The times have changed, but the Constitution, Bill of Rights and the Ten Commandments have not. YET!!!! I really hate to see whats coming if this White House administration and the Congress continues to abuse the very people they are "supposed to represent".
Sammy in Kansas
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 10:01 AM
Amen Professor!
Son of Liberty in Colorado
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 11:26 AM
Professor Williams has once again managed to shine a laser beam at the root problem of our society. The Founders stated that our Constitution was for a moral and religious people, see how far we've fallen away from that thanks to the Progressive meddlings. I truly wonder if our Republic can be saved. I hope that I am wrong about not trusting the youth of tomorrow, but I don't see much flash of brilliance or hunger for true freedom about them. I do see lots of thuggery and leeching off of Momy and Daddy though.
Son of Liberty in Colorado
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 11:27 AM
Note to self - Mommy is spelled with TWO m's!
Doug LeConey in Clayton, Ohio
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 11:31 AM
Professor Williams, I always enjoy and agree with your views. I only wish more people would hear and listen...
eric hunter in montgomery, AL
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 12:17 PM
+1, Sir. +1. I especially liked paragraphs #4 and #7.
Stirling in Fruitland
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 12:39 PM
Thank you, Professor Williams.. got you by one year... you are correct, we young-uns (still do) had to give up our seat on buses and street-cars, and most certainly NEVER talked back to our teachers (my visits to experience the Principal's strap were prompted by other transgressions)... both sad and frustrating to witness the lack of common respect missing today! Thank you again for all you do to remind us of "the good old days".
Matt in Texas
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 1:21 PM
Mr. Williams, I appreciate this post; if there were a 'Like' button, I would press it twenty times. This statement sticks in my mind: "Police officers and courts can never replace these social restraints on personal conduct."
I agree with you that we have abdicated our societal responsibilities to the courts (and lawyers). Our fathers and grandfathers would have said or done something, but we do not. :(
Tab in Norris
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 1:24 PM
Professor Williams, I suppose that I am a racist, since I have not and will not vote for Mr. Obama [!], but I wanted to tell you how much I appreciate your words of wisdom through the years. I agree with your assessment of our society's problems; in particular, I agree with the idea that cultural norms can and should serve as constraints on human behavior. I further believe that individual choices can have great effect on fellow community members, young and old. As a teacher, I insist on good manners and proper conversation from my middle school students, regardless of their background. They respond well, and hopefully, will remember to do so, long after they move on to high school. It is a small step, but it is a step in the right direction.
Jim G in Oklahoma
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 4:35 PM
You sir, truly are a Gentleman and a Scholar. As well as one of my treasured touchstones on economics and political philosophy. I certainly intend to share this one with friends and family.
ScottM in Gilbert, AZ
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 5:05 PM
Bravo Professor Williams!
Rex in Corsicana
Wednesday, August 1, 2012 at 9:19 PM
Excellent column Prof. Williams. Reminded me of an incident about 1944 on a summer evening as my dad and I sat on our front porch, facing a county road. A fellow came by in his wagon and waved. My dad, already in his seventies and with poor eyesight asked who the fellow was. I, being nine yrs. old and going on 20 replied, "it was old man Riner." Boy, I'll never forget that tongue lashing I received with the final statement being, "he is Mr. Riner to you young man." To this day, everyone is Miss, Mrs. or Mr. even though I am usually their senior. Thanks pop for a good lesson!.