Bailing an Ocean With a Thimble

· Sunday, February 5, 2012

LOS ANGELES -- The worst day of Sugar Bear's 55 years was one of the days -- there have been many of them -- when he got out of prison. In the early 1990s, in a prison where persons whose sentences have ended and are being released, and who see those whose sentences are just beginning, he saw one of his sons coming in.

Generational recidivism is not unusual in Sugar Bear's world of fatherlessness. His son, who was convicted of selling drugs, is still incarcerated because he has not been a model prisoner. He is an apple that did not fall far from the tree.

Sugar Bear -- few call him Robert Lewis Jackson -- was a precocious lawbreaker. His first arrest -- "for GTA" (grand theft auto), he explains -- involved a 1959 Chevy El Camino. He remembers that it was orange. He pulled off the freeway, into a gas station, and climbed down from the vehicle. The police who apprehended him there were startled. He was almost 5.

Really. LAPD records confirm this. He drove the El Camino by sitting on a large pillow so he could see out the windshield and using a long stick to work the pedals.

Born to an unmarried, mentally ill prostitute, he acquired his interest in driving from his grandfather, who would drive around the block with Sugar Bear in his lap. Not until Sugar Bear was 25 did he learn that his grandfather was his father, too, having had a sexual relationship with Sugar Bear's mother.

Sugar Bear grew up mostly on the streets, episodically drifting into and out of the care, such as it was, of various female relatives. He kept moving on because one relative was beaten to death in an alley, another killed by a shotgun blast, another had Drano poured in her eyes for reasons Sugar Bear does not remember. He supported himself gathering discarded bottles for their deposits, and cadging hamburgers and peanut butter sandwiches from sympathetic strangers.

His life in the nation's entertainment capital included the exciting night of Dec. 11, 1964, when he was outside the motel when singer Sam ("You Send Me") Cooke was fatally shot. Sugar Bear was 8.

Although he has never been married, he has five children, and has been shot only once. He says he "did juvenile time" but managed, largely because he was an athlete, to graduate from high school. After that, he was incarcerated five times, for sentences ranging from six months to 11 years. He says he was implicated in "a 187" -- murder of a corrections officer -- but was exonerated. Then his life's gyrations intersected with some benevolent institutions.

In 1965, immediately after the Watts riots that announced to a largely oblivious nation the volatility of some pockets of social regression, a UCLA undergraduate, Keith Phillips, moved into this devastated section of the city of angels. Now 65, Phillips is the reason why World Impact, his creation, is a presence in 13 of America's most troubled cities, such as Newark and East St. Louis. Its focus is on fatherlessness and the social pathologies that flow from it.

This is the preoccupation of Ken Canfield, 58, a Kansas State Ph.D. who, until five years ago, headed the National Center for Fathering in Kansas City. He then moved here to help Pepperdine University develop a Center for the Family, and now labors with World Impact living among the city's most troubled people. Canfield acquainted Sugar Bear with Psalm 68, which speaks of God as "father of the fatherless" who "setteth the solitary in families." For people like Sugar Bear, people with holes in their souls never filled by the love of fathers, Canfield says religion offers the "spiritualization of fatherhood":

"If you don't have the calm self-respect that a father gives, your passions go sideways. For a number of men, their passions become sexualized as they look for comfort and affirmation of their manhood."

On a recent day, Sugar Bear, a burly, cheerful survivor, was wearing a windbreaker bearing the logo of the Union Rescue Mission. He works there, helping provide services to, among others, a small portion of LA County's 50,000 homeless, 30 percent of whom are under 35. Bailing an ocean with a thimble? Perhaps. Still, Phillips, Canfield and Sugar Bear, this unlikely American trio, exemplify a very American approach to social regeneration: One by one, from the inside out.

(c) 2012, Washington Post Writers Group


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Comments

mmccrindle

Yet gov't keeps paying young mothers NOT to marry. Keeps paying them to do the wrong things. keeps them on their perverbial plantation.

Yup, keeps growing their clueless constituency base so slugs like Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson can live in splendor while making sure some crumbs make it to their sheeple.

These poor people, still on that plantation for the last 40 plus years, still believe the class warfare rhetoric that keeps them enslaved.

Obama's message is the same.

How can the true message reach these sheeple?

I would just ask them:"Are you any better off than you were 20 to 30 years ago? Your leaders are keeping you down by keeping you dependent on them. Have they really done you any favors over the years? The truth is that they have failed you and continue to do so!"

This message and others similar must be repeated over and over again (over the voices of the charlatans that are the plantation managers).

It just may be too late, though, because great leaders like Reagan are just too few and the liberal leftists have entrenched themselves into such a firm grip of power that they can ravage the Constitution with no fear of reprisal.

Posted February 5, 2012 at 8:35:51 AM


BNgranny

This is an inspiring story. Another example of big government gone wrong and private persons doing the right thing and trying to clean up the mess.

Posted February 5, 2012 at 10:43:23 AM


David Beach

That is how God saves us, one by one.

Posted February 5, 2012 at 3:51:35 PM


Luther

Consider this observation by Pepperdine University Professor James Q. Wilson, a noted conservative and explicit proponent of the 'war on drugs' “Prohibiting the sale of certain commodities provides economic opportunities in which young males have a comparative advantage, and this in turn leads to the emergence of a warrior culture that underinvests in family life. Economic activity is separated from family maintenance and organized around capital that can be seized by predation.”

Drug prohibition provides a finanacial incentive to young males to be "warriors" instead of the responsibility of fatherhood and family. End the war on drugs and the thimble turns into a 5-gallon bucket... not a magic bullet, but a monumental improvement.

Posted February 6, 2012 at 11:28:57 AM


Bubba

Thanks Luther for the utopianism of Libertarianism. You promise an awful lot of in the guise of a 5 gallon bucket. You might read up on the Opium Wars in China and why the ethnic Chinese wanted to stop the trade by the British - seems their young men were becoming addicts and undercutting civic strength. But I'm sure the Ron Paulian goal of allowing middle class white kids legally smoke weed is more important than the lives it would wreck, eh?

Posted February 6, 2012 at 1:58:20 PM


Luther

I can forgive your hatred of freedom and your blind ignorance of Wilson's assertion, but your assumption that my kids are stupid must be addressed. I responsibly teach my children that mind altering substances (like the alcohol you likely consumed before your incoherent rant against liberty), whether deemed "approved" by the idiots in government or not, probably are not be good for them. I have also taught them that using force against another because you disagree with what they put, or don't put, in their bodies is immoral (Thou shalt not steal). Your kids might start using meth if the government told them it was ok, but at least my middle class white kids won't take the government's word for it.

Regarding the Chinese Opium wars... do you not even consider that maybe it was the morality of the people that led them to drugs, not the other way around? Of course, maybe China IS your ideal and the fear of God should be replaced by fear of man.

"It is error alone which needs the support of government; truth can stand on its own." - Thomas Jefferson

Posted February 6, 2012 at 2:19:16 PM


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