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The 'Gay Marriage' Fantasy
· Tuesday, August 10, 2010
With the economy twitching around on the ground, unable to rise, shine and party like old times, "gay marriage," as per last week's Proposition 8 decision in California, must seem to some a secondary matter.
That would be a sloppily modern way of looking at things. Not that economic conditions don't matter; it's rather that rationality matters at least as much as money.
The Proposition 8 decision -- in which a federal judge overturned a state constitutional provision restricting matrimonial union in California to one man and one woman -- reflects the modern aptitude for twisting reality to fit personal viewpoint. Reality, to many of our contemporaries, is anything we say it is, instead of That Which Just Plain Is, friend; external to us, beyond human control.
What about marriage? Why not as the federal judge says, two men together or two women? Can't we just say we've had a better idea than civilization's teachers have had up to now -- namely, that anything goes, provided it's "loving," "committed," "respectful of diversity"?
Nope. Large realities dwarf and overshadow the tiny human figures reacting to them. You can say up is down if you want, or hot is cold, or far is near. It's your democratic right. Saying doesn't make it so, nonetheless, except to activists with a personal agenda. In which case, let fantasy reign.
I'm sorry, there's no such thing as gay "marriage" -- as distinguished from gay "relationships" -- because marriage as understood by the whole of humanity for the whole of human time, normally under religious auspices, exists for purposes no gay relationship can satisfy.
What might those purposes be? One is the blending of the relationship between the only two human types there are -- male and female. The man and the woman go together: physically, emotionally, intellectually. I mean, I'm sorry if that hurts anyone's feelings, but Reality does get in the way sometimes when we set out to change it or make it dance to a merry new tune.
A second, genuinely urgent thing that marriage does -- and no gay relationship possibly can -- is project the human race into the future. We read of gay couples raising children, but not their own: I mean, not as unified couples. Someone outside the relationship had to do the heavy biological lifting one partner or the other couldn't do. The point is suggestive of the need for the two formally conjoined birth forces, Mom and Dad, to carry on what they began: not, as it were, harvesting children but loving what they have brought into the world together; training these new creatures, instructing them, fitting them for the future.
This is what we call Reality. Alternative visions, like that of the California court, are what you call Fantasy: matters of mere opinion.
True, the state of California can be and may one day be browbeaten politically or juridically into issuing marriage licenses to two men or two women. A clergyman or judge can in such cases be recruited to perform, in behalf of such couples, a ceremony officially called marriage. Which would be "marriage" only in the political or juridical sense, nothing more; certainly nothing conforming to the historic understandings that "gay marriage" promoters think it unnecessary to refute, likely because they can't.
We have the oddest debates in the 21st century -- debates our forebears couldn't have envisioned, persuaded as they were of truths either formulated and delivered by God through revelation or deducible from the order of things -- from natural law, as we still know it sometimes.
Fantasy is first the act of abjuring or circumventing God for being so stuffy and mean, then undertaking to act outside universally understood norms so as to advance personal pleasure or satisfaction, all the while wondering why anyone else should care.
A secularized, or secularizing, society, increasingly turned off by Bibles and those who quote them, is especially open to the terrifying temptation. Think ours isn't that kind? Turn on the television.
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Carol
This is another example of the will of citizens be damned -- we'll just do as we want. Beware of the "we"!
Posted August 10, 2010 at 8:25:18 AM
JTG
How is HIV spread? Certainly, not all have received the virus from tainted needles and tainted blood transfusions. HIV is directly connected to homosexuality so does our judiciary have an obligation to protect the citizenry and do everything in its power to stop the proliferation of HIV?
While we're at it, we need an amendment where the vote of the people overrides judicial diktat. It is absurd that one person can inflict so much damage against the will of the people.
Posted August 10, 2010 at 3:17:31 PM
Doug
Gay marriage is ridiculous! With this argument a pedophile has the right to a child bride. Ridiculous!
Posted August 10, 2010 at 3:38:46 PM
Richard
Once again, what the neocommies cannot win in the arena of ideas or at the ballot box they whine and cry and find a "sympathetic" judge.
Personally, while the idea of Gay marriage abhors me, I say let the little cretins open the Pandora's box and make absolutely certain to them in that ALL divorce laws apply just as equally to them. That might give them pause to think...
Posted August 10, 2010 at 4:47:18 PM
Atticus Cage
Mr. Murchison is a great and offensive-to-evil-appetites voice crying in the wilderness, as it were. Awesome. But it is absolutely incumbent on us Patriot Post readers and like minded conservatives to take a cue from one of my U.S. Marines/friends, who literally today, urged those in one of my related political circles to LEARN and STUDY the best of our apologists' arguments (like Mr. Murchison's herein) in order to equip ourselves with more poignant presentations in the market place of ideas. Meaningful cultural amelioration won't happen via preaching to the choir alone; nor will the constant propensity toward misplaced "love" (often at the expense of Truth) in the form of silence, hesitation, self-preservation, so-called tolerance, constitute anything but useless, fruitless, moral timidity on the part of those convinced of The Good.
By the way, the aforementioned Marine was at one time more of the "don't know what to say, let's just be 'fair' and winsome (to the point of insipid lunacy)" type just a couple of years back. Now, his reality based experience and thirst for The Good, for righteousness, combined with old-fashioned courage to speak more eloquently in the faces of promiscuity and sin in general are putting him ever closer to the echelons of today's more effective everyday voices for The Gospel and Goodness.
Imagine our kids having to timorously tiptoe around the horrible doxies of this vengeful and morally reprehensible secularist cabal over the course of the next 50 years. And singing Amazing Disgrace.
Ten million more Mr. Murchisons needed IMMEDIATELY by a once auspicious culture now in derelict decay and obsessed with furtive fantasy: Train up a child, train up a friend, train up yourself. Semper fidelis, indeed, but part of "keeping" the faith is having the courage to protect and spread it.
Posted August 10, 2010 at 5:40:28 PM
Jack
The argument from Atticus Cage seems to be that Murchison and writers like him are "preaching to the choir" and that nothing of real substance will ever be accomplished until conservative articles like "The Gay Marriage Fantasy" are found in a mainstream venue.
Atticus argues that more writers like Mr. Murchison are needed. Perhaps they are, but if they don't exist then they don't exist.
The solution lies not in creating more conservative writers, but in circulating the writing that exists more broadly. And in attracting more liberal readers to venues like The Patriot Post.
P.S. I also enjoy writing dissenting comments at the Huffington Post, even though most of these are soon removed.
Posted August 11, 2010 at 10:19:08 AM
Atticus Cage
Thank you, Jack, for the responsive comment (posted August 11, 2010 at 10:19:08 AM) to my post (August 10, 2010).
I agree with your expansion of my general point and take to heart your exhortation for capable conservatives to also post more diligently at sites like the Huffington Post.
BTW, do you have evidence that dissenters' comments are indeed removed while their counterparts' are NOT? (The first time I posted there -- and you can imagine how poorly I scored in HP's "plays well with others" metric -- it displayed and stayed for at least a few days but then I never thought to monitor their putative tolerance for so-called dissent in that regard.)
Posted August 11, 2010 at 2:24:17 PM
M Rick Timms, MD
Not only is our political leftist society turned off by Bibles, and so called matters of church and state, they are miraculously adamant in their defense of Islam and the rights to free expression. It is amazing to me that in regards to Judeo-Christian thought the left always cites the
"establishment" clause as a basis for the supposed "separation of church and state". But whenever Islam ( or any other non Judeo-christian faith) is the subject - why then we are supposed to protect the "freedom of speech" guaranteed in this country by our Constitution -- you know ,, that "living document" that we can interpret to mean what we want it to mean - if we have no basis in history or reality.
I have many "gay" friends and acquaintances with whom I have no quarrel. In fact many of them are so "gay" they are almost "ecstatic". In my humble opinion , they are certainly entitled to a "civil union" that will afford them the visitation rights and legal status under the law of man. I am not willing however to extend to them the divine sacrament of matrimony, otherwise known as marriage, that is defined as the union of a man and a women.
I consider myself to be an objective person. I am willing to recognize a human right to free association. I am also willing to extend - with some reluctance - the benefits of a "civil union" to those in homosexual relationships. This is as far as I am willing to go. I am willing to pay taxes that may allow the "spouse" of a gay or ecstatic city employee to receive city benefits. I think that is pretty generous. Let's just make sure that when the "union" breaks up - the benefits stop.
I am not willing to change the definition of Marriage to include homosexual and/or non-humanoid forms of interpersonal relationships.
Posted August 11, 2010 at 10:18:46 PM