We lost a Tennessee icon yesterday, a person who rose from the most impoverished circumstances to become the nation's most recognized performing artist, and much more than that.
Dolly Rebecca Parton Dean was a person of deep and abiding faith, a very smart businesswoman, and a philanthropist.
She was born on January 19, 1946, the fourth of 12 children living in a one-room cabin on Locust Ridge above the banks of the Little Pigeon River near Pittman Center, Tennessee. That is just east of Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge, home of Dollywood. It is an area I have visited for 40 years, staying at a B&B just above Locust Ridge next to the Great Smoky Mountains National Park. It is a beautiful place, which I know she appreciated despite the hardships she experienced.
Her parents were Avie Lee and Robert Parton, the latter being a sharecropper, and though illiterate, Dolly said he was among the smartest people she had ever known. He worked dawn to dusk while her mother raised all their children.
Dolly was a child prodigy, composing her first song at age six, then performing on TV at age 10. She recorded her first single at age 11 and appeared on the Grand Ole Opry at 13. She went on to write more than 3,000 songs and sell more than 100 million records — many gold, platinum, and multi-platinum — winning 11 Grammy Awards and three Emmy Awards.
She said that early in her career: "My bedroom was the backseat and [my Uncle Bill Owens’] was the front seat. I'd wash my hair in the filling station bathrooms and put makeup on in the side mirror of the car, and that was just how you did it."
It's hard to pick a favorite among her songs, but mine would be the timeless "Coat of Many Colors" about a patched-together coat from rags her mother made while telling her the story of Joseph and his coat of many colors.
That song begins:
So with patches on my britches and holes in both my shoes,
In my coat of many colors I hurried off to school
Just to find the others laughing and making fun of me
In my coat of many colors my Mama made for me
It concludes:
But they didn't understand it, and I tried to make them see
One is only poor, only if they choose to be
Now I know we had no money, but I was rich as I could be
In my coat of many colors my momma made for me
Another song that touches me to this day is "I Will Always Love You," written to her former business partner, Porter Wagner, when Dolly was leaving his show to launch her own career.
Dolly had strong connections with our hometown, Chattanooga. She and her husband Carl Dean were married here at Ringgold Baptist Church in 1966. She was 18, and he was 21. And she was here weekly when "The Porter Wagoner Show" was broadcast live from a local studio, before her 1974 departure for her solo career.
In light of her father's illiteracy, she launched Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library, one of many ways she has supported children in East Tennessee and now nationwide. Since its founding, her foundation has distributed more than 332 million free books to children under age five. Among her book fans are our grandchildren. Dolly said, "The seeds of dreams are often found in books, and the seeds you help plant in your community can grow across the world."
Carl, an asphalt contractor who avoided the limelight, died last year at age 82, and that took the wind out of Dolly's sails. She has experienced some health issues over the last year, and her death was not unexpected.
She and Carl had no children, and her nephew Bryan Seaver issued the following announcement on behalf of their family:
I have imagined the heaviness of this moment but haven’t truly felt it until now. It is an honor that is mixed with absolute pride and great sadness. But sadness lies with us, not with Dolly. Dolly has lived in the Light and is in the arms of Jesus. Surely met by Carl, her parents, and countless others who have watched her and longed for her to meet them in the heavens. ... Dolly also opened doors for generations of singers, songwriters, musicians and dreamers from every walk of life, and across every continent. By her example, we believed that anything was possible. She never saw a door she couldn’t open and the doors she opened made and changed history. My family and I have shared a lifetime of beautiful memories with Dolly, but so have you.
He concluded:
Dolly was a farmer just like her Daddy. He farmed the soil, she farmed songs and happiness. Dolly called me and said she wants to rest in a beautiful bed of plush cotton because after a life wearing heavy rhinestones, she finally deserves to be comfortable and have some rest. Rest in peace Aunt Dolly. May God Bless Dolly Parton and may God bless you all.
It is no surprise that last year Dolly topped the list of the most favorably viewed global figures.
Of her purpose, she said: "I like trying to make people happy and lift people up and glorifying God. That's my mission in life."
Dolly spent her life lifting others up — with neither judgment nor approval of their life choices.
That included her deeply distressed goddaughter, another child celebrity and pop star, Miley Cyrus. I think Dolly saw her own struggles with stardom from an early age in Cyrus. She also spent time with those who feel disenfranchised, including gender-disoriented people — again, not to judge or approve but to comfort.
Of her faith, she said: "I was brought up believing that through God all things are possible and that Jesus loves me. That's embedded in me. It follows me through everything that I do. It’s in my songs, my heart, my speech."
And it was.
(In honor of Parton's extraordinary life, President Trump has ordered flags to half-staff, saying: "There has never been anyone like her, and never will. Rest in Peace, Dolly! The World loves you.”)
Semper Vigilans Fortis Paratus et Fidelis
Pro Deo et Libertate — 1776
